Top 10 Reasons Why Couples Become Swingers

When you get into a relationship with another person, you are suppose to love that person for the rest of your life. Your lust and sexual attraction for others should automatically cease to exist and the only person you should find sexually desirable is your spouse or loved one. As unnatural as that may sound, that is what we have been taught is the right thing. So if this is what is supposed to happen when you truly love someone, then why do some couples become swingers?

Here are the top 10 reasons why couples swingers:


  1. Both partners have a mutual desire to enjoy sex with others but still want to maintain their deep emotional bond with each other.
  1. To fulfill sexual fantasies that involves more than two people.
  1. They have been married for a long time and they are looking for new ways to spice up or rejuvenate the relationship
  1. One or both partners want to explore their bi-sexual curiosities.
  1. One partner has a very high sex drive and the other partner wants to find ways to help satisfy his/her partner’s sexual appetite.
  1. To satisfy our very natural voyeuristic tendencies.
  1. To fill a sexual void that cannot be satisfied by their partner.
  2. To enjoy group sex in a safe and controlled environment, with other like minded couples.
  3. To experience and learn new sexual techniques that others may have to offer.
  4. To be around other open-minded people and to be in environments that allow them to be fully self-expressed without having to worry about being  judged


Every couple has their own reason or reasons why they got into the swinging lifestyle. However, from my experience talking to other couples, this would be my top 10 reasons couples become swingers.

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