Threesome Etiquette: Role Of The Men In An Ffm Situation

For a lot of couples in the swinging lifestyle, having a threesome was their first step in what eventually evolved into a full swap with other couples. When you are having your first threesome, it can be a very awkward experience as it is exciting. Whenever there is a stranger in the room, it creates a new dynamic that each person has to adjust to in order to make the entire experience a good one for all involved. In this blog, we will discuss some rules and etiquette to having a threesome. This article will specifically talk about the scenario in which there are two females and one male involved (FFM). In any threesome situation, the women are the center of attention and it is the role of the men to make sure the women involved are comfortable and having a good time. So let’s talk about what roles the men should play in a threesome situation that involves them and two other women.

 

1- Take a shower together

Sex is so much better when everyone is clean. Everything is done with more assertion when you know that parts you are about to explore are without any kind of stale odor. Be the one to invite the ladies to join you in the shower. Taking a shower together is also a great icebreaker to help everyone relax, and it’s a great place to start the foreplay.

 

2- Make the women comfortable

Make the women extra comfortable by setting the right mood. Make sure the space is clean with proper mood lighting, maybe a glass of wine to help everyone relax, and some background music to get rid of any moment where there might be awkward silence.

 

3- Know When To Initiate

The ideal scenario is to allow the women to lead the way. Having the girls initiate shows that they are comfortable and excited and it’s also a great sign that you are in for an amazing time. This may not always happen because the females involved maybe more on the shy or submissive side. The male in the room should be on the lookout for any opportunity to get things going, maybe by giving a massage or doing something sensual to one of the ladies. This is not the time to go for the home run. You are simply here to get the oven heated so things can start happening.

 

4- Give Equal Loving 

Do not favor one woman more than the other. If your wife or partner is involved, you definitely do not want to make this mistake or you could see this once amazing adventure to a sad and premature ending. You also do not want to neglect the female playing the role of play date because she needs to feel special too for accommodating the fantasy of you and your partner. Make sure both females feel equal love and take special interest in finding out and doing the things they like.

 

5- Don’t constantly try to please both women at the same time

While you don’t want to take them on individually — this isn’t two twosomes, after all — if you feel like you always have to be paying attention to both, then neither will be satisfied. Get one of the ladies working on you while you satisfy the other. Or you could take turns tag-teaming each other, giving everyone an equal opportunity to be the center of attention.

 

6- Use Condoms Properly

Regardless of you much blood has left your brain and gone into your penis don’t be too dumb to remember safe sex and the proper use of condoms. It’s not cool to pull your dick out of one female and into the other with the same condom on. New condom every time you move from one hole to the next.

 

7- Don’t force the women to do anything with each other

Males tend to have all these perverted fantasies in their head of what they want to see two women doing to each other. That is totally OK, and as long as the ladies are comfortable with doing those things, it only makes the experience that much better. However, allow the ladies to play within their own boundaries without being pushed into doing anything that they are not comfortable doing. There will be threesome situations where one of the females may not be bi-sexual or bi-friendly, and is not yet ready to explore those boundaries. Forcing her will create a very awkward and unpleasant situation for all involved.

 

8- Don’t Leave The Girls Hanging

Just about the worse thing the male can do in those situation is ejaculate way too early, leaving the two ladies way behind. While this maybe exciting and you are turned on beyond control, contain yourself and understand that this situation is not just about you. Find out what the ladies like and see them to the finish line. A real man is not afraid to ask and take directions. If you blow your load before the ladies are satisfied, this whole experience becomes an epic fail, and might be your last. Unless you are one of those guys that can empty and reload in a matter of minutes.

 

9. Talk About It After

When it is all over, whether the experience was good or bad, it’s important to talk about after with all parties involved. Show the ladies you care by asking how the experience was for them. Ask specific questions like, “was their anything that made you uncomfortable?’” Making them feel comfortable in being honest, will only increase the trust they have in you, increasing the likelihood of a repeat to what just happened. Whether you plan to repeat or not, it’s always good to leave everyone with a positive experience.

On the rare occasions you will find a female that is very dominant and assertive in a threesome situation. If you are really, really lucky, you will sometimes get two such females. There is nothing sexier than when the ladies are confident, know what they want and they are running the show and making the moves. However, in most situations, that include two female and one male, the responsibility is on the guy to ensure everyone has a great experience.

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