How You Can Improve Your Marriage And Your Sex Life With A Visit To A Swinger Club!

A first trip to a lifestle club can be a very nerve inducing expereince.  Many a couple has made it all the way to a parking lot, only to turn around and go home.  Others may actually make it into the club, but are so worked up they set them selves up for a bad experience and usually leave early and disappointed.

What if I was to tell you:

Every couple with a good marriage, whether interested in the Lifestyle or not, should at least visit a swing club once in their adult life!

Wow, that is a pretty bold statement!  Let me tell you why even the uber-vanillas should dare to investigate us heathens out.

As a married couple of almost fourteen years, my wife and I have had several adventures that brought us closer and taught us a lot about each other.

One of those experiences was our honeymoon.

As young kids it was the first time we had taken an unsupervised trip out of town together.  It was so fun exploring this whole new world, knowing we only had each other to figure it out!

We learned so much about each other on that trip.  It was virtual relationship communication methamphetamine, as constantly discovering new things about each other brought to the surface by this new unexplored environment.  Not to mention we were having sex for the very first time as well!  If the previous was ampthetamine that was more like Heroin laced crack cocaine!  (As neither of us have ever really experimented with drugs, forgive me if the analogy sucks.)

Since then, there have been many times we found ourselves in completely new situations that taught us a lot about each other.  While few have been as fun or as great as the honeymoon and some have not even been happy experiences, they all, whether it was a newborn, pregnancy, new home, moving across the country, deaths of a loved one, new jobs, lost jobs, college graduations, etc., made us stronger on the back end.  That strength was a direct result of knowing each other better!

The odd thing is, all of those experiences, other than the ,really did not teach us too much about our sexual connection, preferences, or fantasies.  Our extreme religious upbringing helped to ensure we did not talk about this much on our own either.

As a matter of fact, it was not until about 10 years of absolutey vanilla marriage that  on a ride home from a hot tub party that got a little crazy that something new started to click.  After eagerly attending a few more of these “hot tub” parties we started opening up sexually more to each other than we had in all those previous ten years.

You see, all of the sudden we were in a new environment that forced us to learn something about each other.  This environment was not a new state, or home, or job, but a environment where sexuality was more open, embraced, and encouraged.

Our sex life went from about a 6-7 to a 9-10 in just a period of a few months.

We were not playing with other couples, but seeing these healthy normal couples embrace their sexuality got rid  of years of inhibition seeded from the environments of our upbringing.

So that is why I think it would be a great experience for all couples with healthy marriages to try.  Of course, I am not advocating participating. That will be a decision you and your spouse make after you have your inhibitions released and suddenly have the freedom to discuss it.

Imagine a world, guys, where you and your wife have enough communication and understanding that you don’t have to hide your porn collection. Or ladies, your husband is aware that you occasionaly fantasize about some man other than him.  This world does exist, and they are partying topless right at a swinger club near you.

In an upcoming article we will discuss ways to make that first trip to the club a little easier on the nerves!

Take care and go have sex or something!!!

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