The female orgasm is almost the definition of great sex. I mean, the men can always cum, but you hardly hear anyone say that the sex was great without the female getting off. For some women, achieving an orgasm during intercourse is not very easy, while for others it’s as easy as taking their undwear off. Some women can orgasm vaginally so they have an easier time getting off on just penetration. For others, they require added stimulation to the clitoris in addition to the penetration to help them accomplish their climax.
There are no universal set of tricks and rules to getting a female off with just penetration. If they had such a book, it would be a best seller for sure. However, it is said to believe that certain sexual positions can provide added stimulation to increase the possibility of the female having an orgasm during intercourse.
With that said, here are the top five positions to help bring the female to an orgasm during sexual intercourse.
1. Girl On Top
Being on top is the favorite position for most women because it gives her full control over, the pace, angle, depth and level of stimulation. This position comes with many variations, with the most popular ones known as the cowgirl and the reverse cowgirl. This position is not very intense, so the men tend to last longer during this position, giving the female more time to enjoy and come to an orgasm.
2. Coital Alignment Technique
This is like and advanced version of the missionary. You start off in missionary position, with the female on her back and the male on top, between her legs. The pulls his body up toward the head of the female so that his pelvis is slightly higher up her body than it usually is in traditional missionary. Instead of thrusting in and out, he should focus more on grinding against your pelvis. By the male using his pelvic bone to rub against the female’s clit, it provides the added stimulation most women need to come to an orgasm.
3. Sideways Straddle
Some couples may find this one a little more complicated. But if you are able to pull it off it’s well worth the ride. This is another position that is great for grinding and also gives the female control over pace and pressure. It also makes you feel a little bit naughty which helps heighten the excitement level
4. Doggy Style
No need to tell you how this one is done. Ladies get on your hands and knees and the male will take you from behind. Doggy style allows for deep stimulation. A lot of women are able to orgasm from just penetration and doggy style provides the perfect angle to apply pressure to the g-spot. For women who require clitoral stimulation, during doggy it’s easy for them to use their hand or a toy to stimulate the clit.
5. The Bridge
This one is a little bit fancy. Start in the missionary position. The male sits up so that he is sitting on his ankles, with his knees spread wide. The female stays on her back, with her feet flat on the bed. The female arch’s her hip up a bit to get in a low bridge position. He can grab your hips and use them for leverage when thrusting into you. This is another great position for deep penetration and g-spot stimulation. The guy can also rub your clit at the same time. You can use pillows or cushions as props to help with this one. It’s way easier to do if you practice yoga.
Always remember that the easiest way to get an orgasm is by telling your partner what you like. While these positions may work for some, they may not be for you and it’s something else that brings you to your climax. Talking during sex helps make it easier for your partner to please you.
